How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

Stop behaving like cinderalla? you better come out of that relationship.

Kindly try to put in your efforts and if you get tired imagine how much efforts he has taken to bring it to this level. Have you ever went on outing with him, kissed him, enjoyed his company, have sex with him, informed him what he should do to give you an orgazm while you are getting intimate with him or you ever tried to make him reach to climax……or is this love game STILL a puzzle for him?? make it more open ended & talkative/communicative

Correct your expectations sweetheart!!!

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Think over it……whetehr you want to step in or step out. because if you want to remain you have to step in and make efforts to get it to next level….For everything you cannot blame him.

what efforts have YOU made….?? it seems you expect ONLY him to add the spices to the relationship, without you having the need to do anything.

He made efforts to woo you, made you friend from a stranger, took to the next level by making you his gf….

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In any relationship if there will be one sided expectations, sooner or later that will break. and with you it seems that rather than being exciting for him, you have been excited for the relations ship hangover (yeah..yeah I am also in a relationship now) kind-offs, to get it validated or to show off to your friends, parents, society etc.